When the kid was at home, we had some very harsh words for each other at times. She was a wild one and being a single mom didn't help. I had no patience with her. Working two jobs, trying to take care of her and trying to get some sleep was enough for anyone. Since she has flown the coop and now has children of her own, I find that I have more patience with myself, everyone around me and life in general. I guess you just don't realize how much stress you are under until it's gone. I don't think I'm alone here. Right?