I hope that I am not coming off as selfish. So please forgive me, if I sound it. The ex has a gf., who claims she is an attorney.
I just didn't believe it, knowing the circumstances that brought her to this area. The day the judge signed our papers, the ex called me from her landline number.
So I googled her. Goodness! There is a ton of stuff about her out there and none of it is good. Forgery, stolen identities, ruining people. I copied everything I
found and gave it to the ex, so that he could see what he is dealing with. Well, she has an answer for everything. Even though she served two years, she swears
to him that she was framed. She wrote him a check for 9700.00 that bounced. Have no idea what that was about. He still believes whatever story she told him.
I told ex I thought it was odd she didn't have a car and was driving his truck. So ex told me
She and ex went to hunt for her a car. Ex told me she put 25,000 down on a vehicle, changed her mind about what she wanted. She wants a truck like mine only
with the Denali package. Can't get it until September so she told them to use the money she put down on car and she would pay the difference when truck comes in.
Thing is. I found about the car hunting from the salesman. He was telling a friend that my ex came in with girlfriend to get car, left to go get money and then never came back.
(Small town, talk is cheap. Everyone knows everyone else.)
I really feel like she is getting ready to play him big time.
The divorce reads that he has to pay for my house, I can sell it whenever I want and anything under a certain amount he has to fill in the blank (market drops)
He has to pay off remaining mortgage at that time. And he had to buy me out, paying monthly. The children are supposed to get the rental property upon his demise,
but this one is so good, I worry about her scamming him for everything and us losing it all.
My son is upset and he has not told other son about her so he knows nothing.
Stress is a big factor in my heart attacks. Now I have all this to worry about . It's like this huge train is rolling down this huge hill towards us, uncontrollably, and we are like deer
in the headlights.
There is more, this is the tip of the iceberg, but I can't type it all with my hunt and peck.
I even called the RI Superior Court and talked to someone in the crime division and they said NO! She is not an attorney. But he apparently
talked to her attorneys in the above cases and they are supposedly working to get her exonerated or purged, and say she IS a practicing attorney, but how does he know who he talked to?
This is my retirement. This is what I am supposed to live on. This was supposed to be my children's fall back job (rental's ) should the other company ever fail.
I am so lost. It wasn't supposed to be like this. The girl he left me for back in 2007, supposedly she had a rich uncle millionaire who was on his death bed and was supposed to be
leaving her all his money when he died. That never happened either. Not that I would want that to happen to anyone, but apparently he got better, or changed his mind or never existed.
I just don't know what to do. Sit around on my hands I'm going crazy here.
Thanks for allowing me to vent, who knew the ex was such a gold digger.
Sometimes I wonder if I should write a book about my life with this guy.